The family of a man who was abused by Cardinal George Pell as a teenager have revealed how the assault sent him into a sharp downwards spiral before he eventually died from a heroin overdose aged 30
The family of a man who died of a heroin overdose 17 years after he was sexually assaulted by Cardinal George Pell have revealed their son's downward spiral after the abuse.
The boy, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was in the choir at St Kevin's College in Toorak, having been admitted to the prestigious school on a choir scholarship.
He loved to sing, and his father told Four Corners he had been a 'lovely boy' devoted to his family. But in December 1996, he and his friend, both 13, were caught playing in the sacristy of St Patrick's Cathedral after Sunday Solemn Mass.
His friend told the County Court in Victoria Pell had walked in and said: 'Something like, "What are you doing here" or "You're in trouble",' before grabbing the boy's head and pulling it towards his exposed penis.
The friend told the court Pell turned to him next, forcing him to perform oral sex before fondling him as he touched himself.
Changes in the young boy were almost instant.
'His schoolwork, I noticed that it started slipping. His whole attitude changed. His whole being just, he was a different boy,' the father of the deceased choirboy said said.
Within a year of the abuse taking place, the boy had left his prestigious school, as had his friend, and turned to heroin.
The choirboy and his friend, both 13 at the time, had 'nicked off' after a Sunday solemn mass at St Patrick's Cathedral (pictured) in 1996 when Pell found them in the priest's sacristy and assaulted them
Both boys had been given scholarships to the prestigious St Kevin's College in Toorak, but left the school shortly after the abuse
His father told the program he and the boys grandparents had noticed there were burnt pieces of foil around the house, but his mother said the teenager never revealed his ordeal to them.
She said she recalls asking her son twice if anyone had touched him, and both times he had denied the abuse.
The heartbroken mother said it was 'devastating to watch your child spiral out like that'.
'It's very hard to watch,' she said.
In 2014, the man, at the age of 30, died of a heroin overdose. His parents would not find out what had caused their beloved son's downfall until a year later.
Speaking to journalist Louise Milligan ahead of the trial for her book 'Cardinal, The Rise and Fall of George Pell' the family revealed his childhood friend, who had also endured Pell's abuse but not been seen with his old friend in years, turned up at the funeral.
A year later, he filed a formal complaint with Victoria Police against George Pell, both for him and his old friend.
The County Court in Victoria heard Pell had told the boys 'you're in trouble' before grabbing ones head and pulling it towards his exposed penis
Pell has maintained his innocence, and will appeal the trial after he is sentenced on March 13 (pictured: The sacristy at St Patrick's)
The man told the mother of his friend that attending his funeral had been the straw that broke the camel's back.
Sadness and regret had consumed him in the wake of the 30-year-old's death, and he knew it was time to take action.
In December 2018, Cardinal George Pell was found guilty of one count of rape and four counts of indecent assault by a jury.
The decision was suppressed until February, when a second trial was thrown out after issues with evidence, and Pell will be sentenced in March.
Pell, who is Australia's top catholic and the most senior member of the clergy to face allegations of historical sexual assault, has said he will appeal the conviction as soon as he is sentenced.
Defense attorneys for Cardinal George Pell say the jury could not have found the senior Catholic guilty 'beyond reasonable doubt' based on the testimonial evidence of just one person
The father of the man who died before he could see his attacker be brought to justice said he is glad to finally know what happened to his son.
'I'm glad that it's over and it gives me an idea of why my son went through hell. Why he did the things he did,' he said
'And myself, I'm just disgusted. I'm disgusted in the Catholic Church.'
For his mother, the pain is ongoing.
'I shouldn't have lost my son like that,' she told Ms Milligan before the trial.
'And nobody else should either. And it's wrong.' Her lip quivers. 'This is something I live with now. This is something that kills me a little bit every day. And it kills me.'
Despite a criminal case being thrown out earlier this year, another man who says he was molested by Pell in the 70s has launched a civil case against Pell and the church in the Supreme Court in Melbourne.
The suit, to be lodged on Monday, names Pell, the trustees of Nazareth House, (formerly St Joseph's), the State of Victoria and the Catholic Archdiocese of Melbourne, The Herald Sun reported.
The 50-year-old man was a resident in St Joseph's Boys Home in Ballarat from February 1974 to 1978 and says he was abused by Pell during that period.
He was a complainant against Pell in a second trial over allegations Pell indecently assaulted boys in Ballarat in the 1970s. The case was abandoned by prosecutors after a court deemed vital evidence inadmissible; with the man saying he was left devastated by the decision.
'It took a lot of courage and soul searching to be prepared to tell my story, accusing one of the most senior Catholics in the world of serious criminal offences, and eventually I was ready to have my day in court,' he told the paper.
'But when I was told they had withdrawn the case I felt empty, and that an injustice had occurred.'
The man's lawyer Lee Flanagan said at least three other witnesses would testify they suffered similar abuse at the hands of the cardinal.
'There was a fourth witness, but he died after charges were laid against Pell. We may seek to tender his statement into evidence in this case,' Mr Flanagan said.
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Emily Ratajkowski is a showman, on and off the stage. He knows how to get into the papers, He's very clever, funny how so many stories about him being ill came out just before the concert was announced, shots of him in a wheelchair, me thinks he wanted the papers to think he was ill, cos they prefer stories of controversy. Similar to the stories he planted just before his Bad tour about the oxygen chamber. Worked a treat lol. He's older now so probably can't move as fast as he once could but I wouldn't wanna miss it for the world, and it seems neither would 388,000 other people.
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