The whole process of online dating can be fairly daunting, especially when you're not quite sure what you're getting yourself into by signing up to the likes of Tinder, Bumble, or OkCupid, for example.
Dating expert, Andi Lew, has revealed some of her most basic tips for participating in online dating, including keeping certain aspects of your life private from the online dating world, as well as choosing the perfect photo to represent your true self.
The 45-year-old Australian wellness and dating coach said that the 'swipe' culture of online dating is making things move faster than ever, but she's urging online daters to slow down in their rush to find love.
Expertise! Dating coach Andi Lew, 45, has revealed some of her top tips for succeeding in the world of online dating, as she says the 'swipe life' in online dating is moving faster than ever
Dating and wellness coach Andi, told FEMAIL that different social media courting tactics, such as liking someone's photos and sending them private messages, are all successful approaches to trying to secure love online.
She said: 'Courting on social media isn’t the only way to find love, but it’s certainly another way! People meet, message and even marry by sending direct messages, (DMs) privately all the time!
'Another way we flirt on Instagram is by going on a ‘liking spree’. You can like about two or three photos followed by a ‘follow’.
The Melbourne-based dating expert advised those adapting such techniques to make sure one photo is recent, an another is 'around a month ago'.
This way, she says it will show that you put a good effort in to scroll through their page.
She said: 'It usually grabs their attention as the notifications come up and chances are you’ll have a DM after this if there’s mutual interest.'
However, she warns daters not to like more than three photos in a single 'liking spree', 'as you may come across over zealous'.
The mother-of-one, whose latest book #Instalovers was published in December, added that after going on a 'liking spree', the person who liked the photos needs to wait for the person in question to notice.
Top tips: Andi, 45, revealed that when using dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and OkCupid, it's important to establish yourself in a true and honest profile
Expert! The Melbourne resident said 'be honest about what you’re looking for. If you’re really only wanting something casual then make sure you’re protected and prepared!'
She added: 'Whoever went on the ‘liking spree’ needs to sit back and wait for the other person to notice.
They can then make the next move by either following you back and liking your photos, and sending a direct message.
'It’s like smiling at someone at a bar to get their attention and waiting for them to come over and talk to you, should they be interested!'
Instagram is one thing, but more serious daters looking for potential romances now have access to different dating apps, including Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid.
Spreading the love: Andi's latest book #Instalovers explains different elements in the complex world of online dating
And establishing your presence on such apps is vital, according to Andi.
She advises people to be as honest as possible as they set up their profile pages on dating apps.
She said: 'Always be authentic in your description. Be honest about what you’re looking for. If you’re really only wanting something casual then make sure you’re protected and prepared!
'Keep your photos clear, no more than one selfie, and don’t put others in your profile photos unless they know and they’re okay with it!' she added.
Andi said that she has noticed some patterns in photos used on dating apps from her many years working as a dating coach.
She said: 'Women tend to have more photos to choose from because we are always taking them. Men tend to take photos when they’re drinking or on holidays!
'It’s not as common for men to be in pictures daily, so there were a lot of men with fewer quality photos.'
Andi recommends using a photo that shows you doing something fun, or something you love doing.
'Try to get your friends to photograph you doing what you love or something fun.
'A picture tells a thousand things. Look approachable by smiling in your picture or at least show something friendly in your eyes,' she added.
Expert in love: She said that keeping your location private, as well as knowing how to block people are two important safety measures to keep in mind when setting up dating profiles
Advice: The mother-of-one recommends using a photo that shows you having fun for your profile photo, as well as having fun with emojis when messaging potential matches
'Know your assets and show that in your photo. It could be your sense of fun or love of nature.
'The ones with topless selfies don’t always win. So you’re hot, what else ya got? Are you kind and selfless too?' she added.
After setting up the basic elements of a dating profile, she said some of the most important things to keep in mind are keeping some information private, and learning how to make an online conversation turn into a real-life date.
Voila! After speaking to people, Andi advises daters to talk on the phone before meeting in person
Knowing how to block people before you start exploring the online dating world, as well as keeping the location of where you live completely private, are two basic, things to do while getting started.
Once fully immersed in the online dating world and talking to potential matches, Andi says to do a couple of routine checks.
She said: 'Ascertain if they’re available and a real person by asking to see their other social media accounts.'
Once you know that they're a real, potential match, she says to make sure you're having fun while dating.
'Flirt with emojis within your messages. They help us show tonality and body language which is missing in text,' she said.
If an online conversation is successful and enjoyable, Andi says it's a good idea to speak on the phone before showing up to a blind date.
'Do make phone calls before you accept the date, but know how to block a number first too. You might be having great rapport but learn that you can’t deal with the high pitched voice or that you don’t have good banter,' she said.
'You can tell more about a person by hearing their voice. Turn the text into a call within a few days or you could be having an online relationship with an illusion of a person.'
Andi's latest book, #Instalovers, explores the world of online dating, and includes tips for getting involved.
The book also contains different dating app stories as told by Andi, after she went undercover for four years on different apps before writing her book.
#Instalovers is available for purchase on her website, where a hard copy retails for $27.99, or Amazon, where it retails as an E-book for $9.99.
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