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Britain's first gender-fluid family are preparing for total transformation as both parents are set to have gender reassignment operations.

Louise and Nikki Draven, who are parents to five-year-old Star Cloud, are planning to undergo the surgery and be in their 'ideal bodies' by the time their son is ten.

Biological father Louise, 32 – who Star already calls mummy  – is to become a woman and said the change has been 'a long time coming.'

Nikki (right) and Louise Draven (left) with their son Star, now five, are both planning to have gender reassignment surgery

Star's biological mother Nikki is set to undergo a female-to-male procedure and will be called Charlie, reports the Mirror.

The couple from Middlesborough - whose son is free to play with any toys he likes and paint his nails at home - said they worry 'like all parents do.'

They said: 'If we waited until Star was older, he’d spend his childhood with parents who felt incomplete.'

Star is being raised as gender neutral - with his parents focusing on raising a 'person' not a 'boy' - is said to have a 'five-year-old's understanding' of the families situation. 

Although describing Star as well-adjusted Charlie did say he has started asking questions.

'Recently he asked why I had to wear a swimsuit at the pool and not trunks like other daddies. I tell Star mummy is going to a special doctor who will take away her ducky, which is Star's word for penis.' 

Biological father Louise, 32 (pictured with red hair) – who Star already calls mummy – is to become a woman and said the change has been 'a long time coming.' Nikki (far left and right) is transitioning  to become a man and is now known as Charlie

Five-year-old Star Cloud has been raised as a 'person' rather than a 'boy' and can choose what toys he plays with and colours he wears. He recently cut his long hair into a shorter style

The little boy can play with dolls and paint his nails at home. He even cut his long hair this year but is said to be unsure about his new style. 

Louise said of the swap op: 'I have doubts all the time but that's just part and parcel of my transition.

'No one chooses these feelings but when people do, they need the outside of their bodies to match the inside.'

Louise started preparing for the transition process in 2011 and lost 16 stone so that she can have the op in December.

She has also shaved off her red and black hair after hormone treatment left it thinning.

Nikki, now known as Charlie, said: 'I was never happy about having periods or growing breasts. It felt all wrong. 

'So I did some soul-searching and realised I've always wanted to be male.' 

The couple said they worry like all parents but they said 'if we waited until Star was older, he’d spend his childhood with parents who felt incomplete'

The Dravens, married in a pagan ceremony in 2012, are believed to be Britain's first entirely gender fluid family.

'Neither of us gets hung up on the gender we were born as,' Louise, 30, said. 'We don't want our child constrained by that either. We're just an ordinary family being who we want to be.'

Last year the Dravens spoke about their experiences and struggles with other children are imposing their views on him.

They said: 'Star is only in nursery but has already been put under pressure by other children. He came home the other day saying, "I can't play with dolls – they're for girls".

'We sat him down and explained that anyone can play with dolls and that it's good practice for when he grows up and is a daddy. 

'He said, 'I might not be a daddy – I might be a mammy!'

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